The way in which individuals can establish a balanced relationship with each other and their environment can take place in childhood. Childhood is the most important factor in the development of human personality. Accurate and consistent education, positive environmental conditions and balanced parental attitudes are a prerequisite for the healthy completion of this development. The balance is the balance that the individual can have between his / her individual and the society in which he / she lives. and it is a natural development process in which these problems can be solved with the influence of the constructive attitude of the family and the environmental factors. If there are no inherent genetic problems, usually all kinds of problems naturally follow in their own process, and in time they disappear with the socialization of the child. The first striking feature of these disorders is that the child has a reactive behavior. These negative reactions are known as lar harmony and behavior disorders iye and can cause permanent problems if they are not taken seriously.